Suzzie-
An act doesn't need to be completed for it to be traumatic and wrong. That is why in the legal nomenclature there is Attempted _______. You are not at fault! It does not matter that you did not tell the police. It was still wrong. The number of things reported to the police is only a small fraction of the attacks that actually happen. Reporting it or not reporting it does not change what happened. You deserved to be protected.

You do not need to apologize for posting!