Thanks ((madisgram)) - it feels good to know I'm supported here. When this initially came up and the principle spoke to the girls - it seemed this was solved and I considered this a done deal. When the mother came to my house - I went over board to be nice to her. I told her I didn't want to assume it was malicious and I assured her from our end, we would forget about this. Then I realized she was actually pissed and didn't think I should have called the school.
A couple times I was 2nd guessing myself, maybe I should not have called the school - but then I thought about what this would teach my daughter. We tell our kids to tell us if anyone touches them and if I stayed quiet and did nothing - what would that tell her? If this was left to the school, this would be over with now. I'll take your advice and try not to talk about this or the fact I extremely dislike the parents in front of my daughter. Thanks again.