Berries, a social idiot? Please, you are talking to the girl who once thought that you had all those forks in fancy restaurants primarily so that you didn't have to dive under the table if you dropped one! And that was one of my more sophistcated moments!

Please, my friend, if I may cal you that, don't say you contribute nothing. When i think of all the people you whave inspired, supported, and helped through their own troubles through the months I have been on PC, you are one of the people I think of as the bedrock of this site. You do more than contribute; you give this place it's soul and it's culture, with your gentle warmth and you humor, and even your anger when approprate.
Dear, I am purely selfish here. death will someday come to us all, but i hope he or she waits until you have had a good go at happiness first. That is the least you deserve! Stick around and take a few HUGGGGSSSSSS from someone who really ddoes not want to have to say goodbye for a while yet.