Anytime I see that boundaries are being broken I see tons of red flags. I was in a relationship with my therapist for many years, and I chose to ignore the things that were heading down that slippery slope... like seeing him four-six hours a week, interacting with him on facebook, etc. Now, I'm actually involved in a lawsuit against him because things went too far... unbelievably unethical. So, please if you hearing warning bells going off, do not ignore them.