Thanks. I'll check it out for sure.

Everything came out the other day because he overreacted about me not handing him the lighter quick enough. But then if I ever say anything like I won't put up with it then he says I'm threatening him or pulls the whole "I'm so glad you're willing to throw in the towel over something so little" which isn't true because this happens all the time but he turns it into me being not committed. Or says "well I guess this will get held over my head" and when I tell him to stop playing the martyr he either mocks me or does something that reminds me of a 12 year old. His arguing style is just so childish. It's impossible to actually get anywhere.