Okay, I'll bite. You've piqued my interest.

Firstly, where does one find bdsm enthusiasts? Do you all advertise on Craigslist, or meet on Wednesdays at the community center after the book club and PTA meeting? I ask for research purposes, not an interest in participating.

I understand the desire for control all too well. Dominance does not arouse me sexually, however. Also, unlike yourself, I am void of empathy. So, how much of a role does empathy play in your relationship and those especially deviant desires? Do you have a normal relationship with your partner aside from S&M?

Quite frankly, as long as both parties are consenting, I don't see anything wrong with S&M. I laud you for your honesty and ability to control your desires.

I find it quite ironic that your Myers-Briggs personality type is the "protector"...