but she'd probably be really accepting and it could be a really touching moment. i have a lot of trouble saying nice things about t to t. my inability to do that has brought up some important issues. which is always kinda ugh but important to work through. (and the things we really don't want to do are usually the most important things to do).

i've never celebrated an anniversary with t. it's usually a depressing realisation for me (up to 6.5 years now). but then there's no chance of me being ready to graduate from therapy any time soon

if it feels important to you, then its important to raise/share.