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Originally Posted by madisgram
hi lynn, again, thought about something that helps me sometimes, while you're ruminating, why not write them a letter but certainly don't mail it!  write down all your frustrations, what you wished you had said, etc. my T has me do this and at first i thought how stupid  but later realized the benefits. after you've written everything you can think of that you want to spew out, reread the letter in case u forgot something, then tear it up!!! you will undoubtedly feel better cause you've had your say albeit without their audience. it really helps me so i hope it will do the same for you.  |
That's a good idea madisgram -I think I'll try that. After the initial argument, I thought about going down there and ruining their Halloween decorations lol, but with my luck I would get caught.
Usually when I have bad feelings about someone - I rely on Karma to make me feel better - I think "God will punish them for being so mean". I was willing to handle this diplomatically for the good of the children and the kids were talking to each other up to this point. Kids forget so much easier than adults and I never wanted to get face to face about this. Even sharing here helps but I'll try writing the 'no send letter'.
