Lynn. Unfortunately I am broke so I might just go to the library and check it out.

I told him that I am going to talk to someone this week because now it's to the point where I can't see who is right and who is wrong in certain aspects. I know that I didn't set good boundaries at first and that was my bad but I don't expect to be walked on. I kind of expect people to understand that those lines are already drawn just by society's standards but I guess that isn't universal.

Today it was brought up again because I didn't want him to hold me this morning when we woke up so he was upset and snippy with me so, of course, it turned into an argument. I gave him examples of how naggy and annoying/childish he can be when he is upset or angry and supposedly he realizes it. However, without a consistent reminder or professional help, I don't expect things to change. So that's why I'm going to a T this week to see if we can get regular appointments going for both of us (cause God knows I'm not perfect either).

He did tell me some reasons why he is insecure which I have already heard and knew. When I told my sister that she said "Yeah, thats how J always pulls me back in too" which didn't give me any more confidence in the situation.

I guess I just have to keep an open mind and pay close attention over the next 5-6 months before our lease is up.