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Originally Posted by teddy27
This probably isn't the type of question you were expecting, but is the whole "leather" thing completely necessary in the bdsm scene? I'm really not into it. It's just... uncomfortable... Other than that, I think I'd make a pretty good mistress...  |
Not at all. There is nothing that is necessary, and the leather families that grew out of the beginnings of BDSM within the homosexual community are now just another subset of the very wide umbrella that is BDSM.
When there are dress codes they vary wildly from event to event.
The last one I considered going to which was more of a general decadence evening had the following:
Latex colorful/black, leather, TV, PVC, uniforms, glamor & fantasy, burlesque, fetish goth, net, lingerie and corsets.
With an extra allowance for male doms with company, which could also wear black suits with a black shirt, with their company naked except for wrist straps and a collar.
The other event, well, it didn't allow Mistresses, but had they, I'm sure their dress code would have stipulated cultivated evening dresses for them.