Hi folks,

I'm going to agree with the ladies on this one. I think of myself as a caring and thoughtful kind of guy but I'm still short in this department. It's like I don't think to ask the right questions.

Having said that, I know what my wife likes to eat, what kind of days out she likes, and her taste in movies, clothes etc . When I offer to go her way on something she is sooooooooooo happy, and that makes me feel guilt about all the times that I have just gone my way.

One simple question that applies in every relationship but is so rarely asked. 'What is it that you want?'

Cheers, M