Sorry you have to go thru this, it isn't right at all.

My T either reaches out to shake my hand at the end of the session, or pats me on the shoulder on the way out. I don't like either though. Funny, because I am a huggy person, I hug all my H's friends when they visit...all my kids friends too. I do have a real hard time with handshakes though, they feel unclean and germy to me. As far as T goes...I prefer no contact at all.