A telephone crisis counselor is not in the position to be telling you any of that type of thing. You have a regular counselor and a plan to help yourself, and her jobis to remind you of that and help you work through that. If she is not a licensed therapist or psychologist she should not be trying to second guess your work with your T and guilt you out, and she should be reported.
If you are badly depressed, you are not in a position to handle your daughter wither and i am not talking about being a little blue. I think you know that as well. That is something I don't think theis so called couselor gets. You are right to react and I think that you should talk to your T or the place where you were hospitalised for further advice and to the organization or clinic that runs that line. This woman could cause a lot of trouble. Good for you for catching her! excersize and fresh air is good, but it''s not the whole story, dear. HUGGGSSS and chin up!