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Originally Posted by Deborah35
It's not as if I sit there with a checklist of the things a man has to have in order for me to "date" him. I believe in giving someone a chance, and no you're right Marjan, I do not want to just go out with anyone. There are a few things I won't tolerate from someone, for example, being stood up without even a phone call, talking "down to me" as if I'm not as smart as he may be, but those are not based on my "standards" like he has to have this or that kind of job, or drive a certain car, I'd figure those were more "standards". Just my opinion.
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well...that's the case for me as well....I don't care how much money the guy has or which car has been driving.....but It's import to me him to be not lazy and be smart and have a good heart....yes, it's important to know if he's treating his family and friends and other people nicely with respect....also, does he care about working? I don't want to end up being a provider.....
I found out once you have these types of standards, then it's harder to find a date....however, that chemistry is important to me....otherwise, what's the point!