I think most people see and feel what is wrong, but they cna't think about it so much. they find ways to distract themselves, because otherwise, they would break under the pain. Some people just can't think of the rest of the world, the world they have n front of them and the things they have to do to keep themselves and thei families alive are crushing responsibilities that keep their heads bowed and their eyes on the ground. It's not that they don't care, dear, it's just that they can't afford to stop and look. They have to keep going.I don't even think that it is an issue of strength, it's simply an issue of each of us having to find a way to live in a world that is so far less than perfect, so far less than even decent. The hard thing is the second guessing, trying to find motives for others is so temtping because it offers protection for us, but for me, it ussually has only caused me to lable other's actions unfairly. Reach on out, most of the world just wants to make it another day. HUGGSS