We have really been working on things. Him & I have been working on things. And I finally got into a therapist where her & I have been working on the PTSD stuff along with the Boderline Personality stuff (which has been bad lately). The therapist has been helping both of us to understand the PTSD and BPD along with the anxiety and depression. I have gotten off the Effexor/Pristiq, which seems to really have helped. I'm actually able to feel things.