It's just ridiculous - we both live here in this house, yanno? We both go to the refrigerator, even though I do more with the contents of the fridge than he does - can he not see that the shelves are bare? Can he not see the burned out lightbulbs? Can he not smell the garbage that needs to go out?

I mean, yah, it's going on 13 years of this & I get so sick & tired of being a mom instead of a wife. I feel like all I do some days is follow him around telling him what to do & then having to ask him if he did it... Yeesh!!!