i am so sorry lonegael that you are being triggered by certain music. to me music comes from within the soul and is an expression of many emotions and feelings that cause memories to form of the events when you first heard the music. i feel so sad when i hear the song "Cherish" as i lost a wonderful love when this song was popular (and of all things "Hang on Sloopy"--he gave me that album). and the earlier Beatle songs remind me of an innocent time of youth when i had fun, went to friday night school dances, got to dance with a guy i had a secret crush on, etc. (still love the song "I Wanna Hold Your Hand")

i hope that the sad memories will retreat as quickly as they appeared and hopefully be replaced with other songs and good memories.

wishing you healing thoughts