I understand when he gives me his reasons for acting the way he does and putting up that emotional wall to keep people out. But after a couple years I'm just fed up. It's like, yeah you had a crappy childhood! Good for you! Suck it up and get the hell over it!

I just can't baby someone for 2 years trying to squeeze blood from a turnip when he's just playing the victim. I don't withdraw from him and blame it on my abusive ex from 5 years ago! Like dude.....GROW UP! You are 27.....with a masters. And you can't get over stuff that happened to you in high school?! It just feels a little pointless sometimes.