I'm going away for about 7 months. I just sent in my deposit, so the decision has been made! Basically we decided that I won't talk to my T unless there is an emergency, and then I can call her but I also have to see somebody there. I have mixed feelings because on the one hand I really want to be independent and take a break from all of this emotional work, but on the other hand I'm really worried about not having the support. And if I was having an emergency, I can't imagine telling anybody but her. But I will let you guys know how it goes. Thanks for the input!