(((((((((((angelmarie)))))))))))))) I'm sending you big hugs too The thing is, this girl is not your child. Neither is she your BF's child. No one would expect anyone to take in a stranger off the street and start putting the stranger's needs above their own. I feel a lot of unfair pressure is being placed upon you because of the word "family"......This girl may be your BF's neice, but to all intents and purposes she is a stranger to you. I totally see where you are coming from. And I don't think you're being selfish. I just don't.

I'm so sorry you are stuck in this mess right now I really hope things get better.