Perna...thank you for the reply...I guess my problem is that this actually is my ex we are back together after 25 years-he had a bad drug problem and he did cheat on me then-he can't remember alot of what he did back then-PCP was his favorite drug.
I guess that the problem for me is these females are all around the same age as our daughters(we each have 1 by our second marriages)the video was actually taken on a trip to see his mom with his daughter.He travels alot and he drinks-not always to excess but alot-everyday at least beer
I mean we are 5 years into this now and like I said I found out all this he never told me about any of it.Would the comment that he made on the video bother you? I am guessing since you said you'd been married 20 years we are perhaps close to the same age?
Again a million thank you's