Hello vs tyrant,

I guess this is part of that problem? Thinking that there is an underlying meaning or reason for those offering their support? But I don't think there is vs. I do think that people care and are aware that it is just as important to try to fix it from both sides.

As for trying to assist her to understand, have you offered her any journal entries to read (if you keep a journal that is), or had her attend any Pdoc appointments with you so that the doctor can explain it to her?

I really hope you can move past this and bring yourselves closer together.