I am sorry for making a "fuss" and I am very sorry if I worried or hurt anyone .... bp if you are reading this, please stay!!!!!!
But I hope that whoever it is (you know who you are ...) that used to keep threatening to leave in chat will think twice about doing it again. It does hurt people and it can create conflict .... I seem to have hurt at least one person just with this one post ... and I hate hurting people. I am sorry.
I hope we can all start afresh, if need be, and be good friends and help each other out ... and not get bogged down with conflicts, jealousies, stuff from our pasts intruding in the present and misunderstandings. A bit of a tall order, but worth a try!

I know I have been wrong sometimes, and I apologize. The friendships we have here are worth the work.... and to bp ... you haven't screwed up. If anyone has screwed up, it is me, and when I screw up, I screw up good! But now I am "moving forward", as de would say ... and leaving some crap behind

, and I do not mean that anyone here is crap!
Love to all,
Fuzzy