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Nov 09, 2005, 10:14 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2004
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1,272
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Not sure if this is the correct place or not, if not then feel free to move it.
We talked about my mood, how things are etc, then we talked about the ex. The one that I was with for 2 weeks and then he went out West, i've mentioned him in other posts before.
She said that he seems to be trying to cause doubt in my relationship with my current bf of over 4 yrs, I live with him. Just making comments about when I say he is going away on a skiing trip, he kinda gets mad and says why isn't he bringing you with him, because I don't ski? He said then it doesn't matter he should pay for you to go at least to see the sites. Stuff like that, he wants to meet my man, not sure that is a good idea though, I don't know if he'll see something that he doesn't like and start something. I don't want anything messing with my relationship.
I met him last week... he came to my parents place, he said that he meant to come back and win me back, or fight for me something like that it was one or the other... All I said was oh boy, I mean what do you say to something like that after 6 years of not seeing eachother, and only 2 weeks we were actually together before he left 6 yrs ago.
Aparently he's told everyone about me, people out West, people here, his friends and co-workers, if I was to walk into the resturant where he works i'm sure people would turn and look at me saying, that's the one.
Is this something I should be concerned about? My psychiatrist said to watch for red flags, I did see them at the begining but don't anymore, or are there some and I'm just blinded to them? I don't know if this is an obssesion or not. 
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