I can kinda relate to your husband. When I had my first experience with an alter from my husband, I was completely blown away. I did all kinds of research seeking answers that he could not give me. My husband tried desperately to not believe what was happening. After a few months, he became more rational about it.
I found this site because he had an episode while I was taking a mini vacation with my friend.
I generally keep stress and triggers to a minimum so he doesn't have to slip away and avoid things. (if that makes sense)
Anyway, he thinks that one of his alters may have had sexual relations with another woman.
I at first felt like that couldnt happen, cuz he loves me and that is so out of character for him. When I first researching DID, there was not a lot of information about it.
But after reading posts on here I am beginning to understand a little more.
I am feeling a little better, at least the knot in my stomach is starting to unwind.
I love my husband and want to do whatever I can to help him.
thank you for answering.