Lexicon,

I read your post and my first reaction was surprise. I suppose I would be surprised if my therapist made a sexual innuendo with me. I sort think it would make me feel uncomfortable. If she were to talk about sex in general that would be fine, but to make a comment that has a sexual innuendo between me and her then ..........................It makes me feel uncomfortable.

I suppose it just feels wrong to me. If it happened to me I would have to talk about it and make her see that i didnt like it. Plus, Ts and clients can be physically close, I know I am with mine, you know, hugs and cuddles and so on. But it would all feel very different if I felt there was a sexual agenda behind it and then i would be too worried about what was going on instead of just accepting it as a wholesome interaction.

I would be looking to talk about it, clear the air and get a better understanding of what was behind the remark.

It may well be that it was a clumsy attempt at showing acceptance, in which case you have no worries. It may be that it is something quite different and if thats the case you need to sort it out.

I would be really interested to know what the outcome is if you are OK to share

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