yep, yep. I hear you. My parents aren't alcoholics, but somehow I am the black sheep, always. I never receive approval, despite having my life more together than any of my siblings (and they're a tough act to lead). I've done really well in my career, have great friends, an awesome house, and a partner who loves me very much... so where is it that I'm still considered a !#@$@%-up?
You're not alone. We black sheep have to stick together.
Love,
LMo