It sounds like really intense irritability. I get that way quite often and my dad was the same way. I'm not sure why I get that way but I think it's related to my anxiety/depression or something...Or just generally feeling like you have no control of your surroundings? but with my dad he had an overactive thyroid. After he got meds for it, he got a lot better but was still what one would consider an irritable person but it was under control for the most part.