I got out of bed finally. I did not overtly react to being over looked and ignored yet again. It was difficult. But I did it. Thats really doing something right. I did 5 minutes of cleaning up in the yard. Okay, heres the beauty of this thread. I will be leaving the computer now and doing 5 minutes of cleaning up in the yard before its pitch dark outside. I would not have done this if I had not tried to think of something I did right, and not come up with anything substantial. thank you again Sundog