Greenleaves, is there some way you canCopy your posting and take it to your T? If it makes you so upset to read about this, then there is something there that it seems you need to bring up with him or her. It's a really offensive thing that all too much gets justified in the name of science. It's also very, very likely that you have NOT been vicimizd in this way. Your T can help you sort this out and findsome balance.
HUggs dear. Don't blame you for being T.o.'d. That's a lot of nerve to bring in the students.