Update:

Well my friend is still hanging out and talking to me (which I am so relieved about but I had sort of reached the point where I was thinking if she stops talking to me, it's still not worth constantly letting her gf insult me and trying to appease her).

The name calling gf is avoiding me, which, I don't know if she thinks she's punishing me or just can't stand to be around me. But either way, it's a sweet deal for me because generally I would have been dodging insults and trying to play nice.

I'm kinda nervous she will see things aren't going how she hoped and step up her game somehow, but I want to stop being nervous all the time too :P