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Old Oct 31, 2010, 11:21 AM
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i'd look him straight in the eye and tell him i only discuss politics with friends. meaning he's not your friend. hummmm. i'd ignore any comments he makes and direct my conversation to a friend in the group. basically not rewarding his behavior.
this guy is abusive. i am sorry your friend doesn't see that. any way you all can exclude him on outings and let your friend see him elsewhere?
hate to admit it but i'd probably tell him i was not in the least bit interested in his opinion. if he rebuts i'd repeat that same statement over and over if he continues to taunt. learned this in therapy re verbally abusive ppl.
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