will have a look @ the link shortly. I do have those abandonment issues, and feeling of emptiness. I do tend to idolise one person, but i do not suddenly go to hate them. My relationships are volatile, but not from my side.
I do have a concern that there is a new stigma attached: bipolar is a chemical imbalance, therefore it is not YOUR fault. BPD is a personality disorder, so you need to pull yourself together and get on with it! Almost like BPD is not taken as seriously, or seen as quite as much of an issue as BP...?