And Huggs to you too, Michelle, becuase when the people we love hurt, we also suffer. It might be that for some reason, her other parts are't ready to deal with this, that it is exactly for this they are letting her handle this, even if this is stressfull. It might be the type of thing that stresses her rather than the stress that sets off the switch, but I'm sure you know that. Maybe she doesn't want them to. maybe she is trying somehow to prove her mom right by not letting them surface to help her. I don't know but i truly hope that she can find some type of solace. This sounds like a horrible time for her. Warm safe and protecting vibes to both of you, and I really hope she feels better soon.