Miracle and Justapixie TY so much for your reply. It makes me feel not so alone. Some of this I have talked about in therapy and my T says it's not all about me or all about him it takes two people in a marriage. I do have my flaws as so does he. I just wish this bad feeling would go away. I guess I need to suck it up and try a different approach perhaps? I told my husband this evening that we needed to do fun and different things together. Not sure where this road is taking me but we'll see. PM me anytime - anyone if you would like to discuss this or perhaps start a group??