i realise how inportant it is to discuss things with partners i should of relised this before, we dont talk enough never have , husband isnt a great talker so when we have thingsto discuss we sometimes write on paper wat we want to say to each other then that way we do still talk ,

we both still have problems on how the other is going to react if we say something the other likes , i have phoned for an appointment with relate marriage gudiance but going to have to wait 3-4 wks for an appointment in the mean time we have to keep trying ,some days are good some are better but we still have some bad times,

yester day after i had a couple of hours of sllep we caught up on eastenders soap as it was his day of then we went to the club we have joined and played pool and had dinner also went around to see if we can get a scooter for husband to get to work on as his has gone compleatly wrong good evening watching tv donna kebabs and a dvd called undead ,

so we are trying very hard