Thanks for your input Belle and Rhiannonsmoon. I am just trying to think of what I should do. Because I keep having second thoughts and weighing the pros and cons of breaking up with him vs staying with him.

I'll just keep trying to see what's what for a while longer and try to get him to communicate more then I can figure out if I should leave or not. I love my BF dearly and I would not want to leave him but I'm getting so overwhelmed by the current state of the relationship and my emotions, plus managing my school work.

Breaking up with a man I've been with for 7 years and helping him everyday on his issues and trying to build a life with him is the hardest thing in the world. Yeah I'm frustrated with him but I was thinking today could I really go through with it?