This desperate position is not a good one to be in. Is there any way that you can stop this "dance" with this person? It isn't working and it is actually hurting you. Some people can actually react negatively to desperation. This might be what this person is doing??
You still have the other chef to interact with.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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