I can sympathize for sure. I've been in treatment for 9 years as a bipolar with additional dx (amongst them being borderline) but this week my new tdoc told me that was ridiculous. That my main dx was borderline and that my bipolar was really the least pressing of my issues. I'm kind of in shock. I've had the borderline dx as well since the beginning but I've never talked about it in therapy. It's always been all about my bipolar. I feel like the rugs been pulled out from under my feet lol Especially because everyone knows borderline people are just bad people