Couple of weeks ago my boyfriend and I started seeing a couples therapist. With intent for the therapist to do couple and individual therapist. Since we have been arguing non stop and it has questioned us if were are meant to be together.

Every session that I have attended has been difficult, I've cried I cannot hold back how I truly feel which is hurt. There are some issue that we are trying to figure out but the therapist believes that I have some underlying issues that I would need to work on to make the relationship work.

When I was younger, my father left when I was about 10. He reappeared in my life about three years ago. While he was gone and I was a teenager, I was every disobedient towards my mother and going through the adolescent stage was difficult for me because i had no one to turn to. I was pretty much in trouble all the time and was sent a away for a while. Now that I am much older I do see what had happened and the way I act at times is because the fear of being left behind.

I feel a bit assumed that this has resurfaced and I think this was the cause for me to act the way I do at times and not have successful relationship. At this time I have to work on this to get some where in life.....just wondering if there are other people like me out there.