look in phone book and call aa central office in your area. tell them you need a ride to get to a meeting. we offer our names/phone numbers and rides to meetings to help the newcomer. it's our way of helping the next person. just like neiki, sp? just do it! u will not be disappointed, hun. keep us posted and you can pm me anytime. you've got nothing to lose by going and a whole lot to gain. i've never regretted getting up the courage to go.