Hi Perna,

Its great to hear from you again, you always seem to give some really reasonable advise.

You are right abou tnot knowing what he is thinking and its basically a guessing game and we need to work on our communication. We have been talking about that during therapy though. I have an issue of needing to feel appreciated because I feel like
I am always being taken for granted. I think if I try not to do as much for him and just cut back and just do things for me that would be better. And if he is not that type of person that appreciates I cannot make him and do things to get a thank you and that makes a lot of sense to me. I guess man and women are just too different.