Men usually contact their exxs when they are at a loose end and just want someone to jump on. They rely on our emotional attachement to them and they take advantage when they have nothing or no one in their lives. And the worst ones are the ones that broke up with you and think that they can come back and mess with your head just because they know they broke up with you when you wanted to be with them. They will dump you the minute someone comes along that they fancy.

I know i sound cynical but these days its really hard to find a guy thats only interested in friendship. I am too scared to date. I feel lonely but cant go through the emotional trauma of it all again.