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Have you tried focussing on the potential positive aspects of change? You will have some new colleagues at work, who can turn out to be friends. They are not part of that "evil" workplace yet, and you can have some fresh, bright, unprejudiced people around you to talk to. Also, are there things you like about work T's new office? It is bigger, brighter, nicer, smells fresh and new? Imagine the time when he will have moved all your soft toys and other safe and stable objects over there. And you know he will remain the same old T you always liked. Will you like the place then? Are there any advantages of being in the town centre: it is busy, there are peope there, you are not alone, you WILL be in the here and now, in the nice bright present, when you step outside his office. Would it help you ground, what do you think?
Think about change as moving forward. You are changing too, and in a good way. You are moving towards a healthier you, and the world around you is trying to do the same. And your T will be a happier, perhaps even better and more balanced T, as now he has his own office, something he always wanted. Try to hang on to the good things; even though things are changing around you, there is stability (your S/O, your home, your T, your friends).
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