Well I told him that no matter what happens I'm moving out because, whether I decide to work on it or not, I can't live with him anymore. I'm going to a T Monday to get an experts opinion on it and hopefully get some incite on whether it's really worth it or not. And depending on their answer, decide to take him with me the next time. Today I told him that this is the absolute last straw. No other time have I given him an ultimatum so I have never made it perfectly clear "hey, you do this again and I'm gone". So this time I flat out said, you hurt me one more time and I will not even attempt to work it out whatsoever. He said he agrees and says he realizes what he has been doing. I'm taking that with a grain of salt. More like a tablespoon of salt.

Right now my hopes are not very high considering I had to tell him I'm leaving before he did anything. Which I guess is pretty common in these types of situations. My sister said "yeah, he'll realize he's a jerk in 3 years after you've left and moved on".

I guess I'm just taking it one day at a time right now. I can't expect anything because then if he really does try and make changes but I'm expecting a let down, that's not fair to him either. We'll just have to see.