(((((((((ww))))))))) I'm sorry, but I"m with dottie on this one. How do you put up with it?

The 'kids' are old enough to be more responsible. They should contribute and clean up (literally) their own mess (like the rain in the room). Pay some rent or something. As for the trash can witth the poo - I would put it in his room. It would be very educational (and good for them) to find their own place to live and take care of themselves. Yeah, I know - money. Well, they'll have to figure that one out themselves.

WW, they're taking you for granted and it's not right. In fact, I'm kinda angry about it. You're a wonderful person who puts herself out for everyone (and I do mean everyone) and yet, you are not appreciated enough.

I'm glad your hubby is helping you. Please take care. huggles.