hugs for you Tree. I'm sprry I can't change it.

not to bore you to death with Harville Hendrix but something he said in the chapter I'm currently reading really struck me. He said that the huge majority of clients who termnate therapy with him prematurely, do so because of the anxiety they begin to experience when they are begining to heal, and change starts to happen from within. It's different, it's scary. As the changes go forward, it seems that one hears a voice from deep inside (actually I remember one PC person posting this once) crying out, I'm dying... I'm dying... and after a while it changes to... I'm dying... I'm dying... hey I'm not dying?! ... and you begin to live as yourself, your whole self. Hugs to you