Well we would both move because neither of us could afford this duplex by ourselves. My parents are 14 hours away and I moved back in with my mom once for 2 months and we about killed each other lol.

The T appt Monday is just a consultation so they can place me with someone who specializes in what I need.

And HE actually said something incite full today. I'm planning to get my PhD out in Colorado right now and he applied for a job out there a while ago but about an hour from where the campus is. They emailed him the other day and said he was qualified and will be calling him for a phone interview. And the guy who does the hiring is his old boss from when he used to work for the Forest Service. So he actually brought up him moving out there and me living by myself here while he lives by himself there. He would get benefits including mental health and would go to see a T and possibly get on some anti-anxiety meds. Then, over the next year or two until I graduate we could work on our individual issues by ourselves. That way, if it doesn't work out it's easier to go our separate ways and, if it does, we can go from there.

I can't believe he actually brought that up. The other night he didn't throw a hissy fit when I wanted to sleep alone in the other room.