Thanks, Sharon. That does make sense about needed individual counseling. He has pointed out that he is a little narcissistic without realizing that's what he was calling himself. He has said that he is just oblivious to situations and what they require as far as emotions go. If I asked him I know he would go himself but he doesn't have insurance right now and I do. So the only way for him to talk to someone is to do couples counseling through me. And when we argue it does seem like he turns into a 12 yr old.

I will mention everything you said to the T on monday and see what they think. I really don't want to encounter "well maybe he is just stressed and you need to be more understanding" type of crap because that is what happened the last time and I thought it was bull then, and it's bull now. I'm stressed as can be but don't do or say those types of things.

Thanks again.